Learning
about humor this semester has completely changed how I look and perceive things
that are funny. It makes me think about why I actually find certain things
funny. I also find myself thinking about jokes before I say them. Questions
like, is this appropriate for the situation? And, is this humor going to be
harmful to anyone? The second of the two questions in particular has really
tripped me up. My sense of humor is a little different than most. I like to
give people a hard time and a lot of times that involves saying something mean
in a joking manor (as to diffuse the situation and hopefully allowing the other
person to notice I am in play mode). I have found that sometimes people don’t
or can’t pick up my play signals and they take me seriously and therefore are,
or can be, offended by my comment. Taking this course has really allowed me to
realize when certain comments are funny and appropriate and when they aren’t.
These comments tend to deal with the superiority theory, when in fact I don’t
actually believe I am better, but I say something that hints at it merely to be
funny. In theory, I’m trying to get them to be offended at first, but then
hopefully they will pick up on my play signals and realize that it is simply a
joke. In which case they get that false alarm sense of relief and hopefully
laugh because of it. What I have learned form this class has allowed me to
understand why others might not find something is funny, even though that it’s
my intent.
Learning
about humor has also improved my own jokes and one-liners. Breaking down the
theories of humor has actually allowed me to think things through for that
extra second to make the witty comment or quip even funnier. Such as waiting
until everyone is disengaged before saying something funny. Humor can be
considered as disengaging, therefore if the people hearing the humor are
already in a disengaged state, the joke will be generally more effective than
if the audience is deeply engaged in something else. If this is the case, they
may miss what you said or the intricacy of the comment and it is no longer
funny. Studies have shown that the human brain can only focus on one major
thing at a time, therefore if one is engaged in something other than looking
for funny comments, the comment might easily be missed. I’ve also been able to
read and realize when people are in this “play mode” or disengaged state. This
means that my jokes are generally timed better, therefore usually well received
and have a positive effect. As I stated before, sometimes jokes are more
effective when people aren’t in the disengaged state, in which case they almost
believe what you are saying before realizing that it is a joke. This false
alarm causes the “fight or flight” or initial shock of the statement to be
released as laughter.
Before
I started taking this class, I was trying to get better at biting my tongue and
being more careful in certain situations so people wouldn’t take what I say the
wrong way. I was having a really hard time with that, and I still am. However,
what I’m learning from this class is allowing me to craft my (or what I think
are my) humorous statements. The things I have learned in this class are
allowing me to filter myself and actually think over what I’m about to say in
an effort to avoid people taking what I’m about to say the wrong way. Sure, I
still step on toes occasionally, but that is almost never my intention and this
knowledge is at least guiding me in the right direction when it comes to
filtering what and when I say things.



